Sermon Synopsis 2.9.26

Delivered by Bishop Joseph W. Walker, IIIY

Scripture: 2 Corinthians 6:14 (NKJV)

14 Do not be unequally yoked together with unbelievers. For what fellowship has righteousness with lawlessness? And what communion has light with darkness?

      I.               INTRODUCTION

We live in a culture that glorifies connection but minimizes compatibility. Everybody wants to be linked up, hooked up, partnered up—but few people pause long enough to ask, “Is this person aligning me with the will and purpose of God for my life?”

This message is not limited to romantic relationships. Yes, it applies there—but it also applies to platonic friendships, social circles, business partnerships, and every form of alignment in this season of your life.

It is easy to confuse chemistry with covenant. Emotional energy can override discernment. You can feel a strong spark with someone who is completely wrong for your spirit.

Sometimes we get caught up in attraction and miss the assignment—the person God intended to help us reach destiny.

Discernment is not about judging people; it is about protecting destiny. If the enemy cannot destroy you, he will distract you—and distraction often comes wrapped in everything you prayed for, minus the anointing.

You cannot discern red flags if you are blinded by what feels good in the moment.

It is possible to be emotionally involved but spiritually entangled, spending energy, trying to make something work that God never willed for your life.

There is a difference between someone being interested in your image and someone being invested in your increase.

The enemy loves to send people who look like your answer but function as assassins to your assignment.

That is why discernment is not optional—it is essential. Every open door is not a God door, and every person who enters your life is not meant to stay.

Paul writes to the Corinthian church—a culture filled with compromise, where conviction was rare. They had spiritually entangled themselves in relationships that diluted their faith.

Paul draws from an agricultural metaphor: the yoke, a wooden frame that joined two animals together so they could pull in the same direction, with equal strength and stride.

If the animals were mismatched, they would fight the yoke and fail to move efficiently.

Paul uses this image to describe spiritual alignment. You cannot walk with someone going in the opposite direction and expect divine progress.

This is not about arrogance or superiority—it is about assignment.

God calls us not just to be connected, but to be discerning about connection.

The question is not whether you love people; the question is whether you are yoked properly to fulfill purpose.

Everybody in your crowd is not assigned to your corner.

  II.               THE POWER OF DISCERNMENT

Many believers struggle with knowing whether it is God speaking or their emotions talking.

Every door God opens, He makes clear. But every door that opens is not God.

Discernment is heaven’s radar—the internal witness of the Holy Spirit that alerts you when something looks good but is not God.

Too often, we let desire dictate decisions instead of allowing discernment to do its work.

The enemy never shows up wearing horns. He shows up dressed like what you prayed for.

Discernment is the God-given capacity to perceive what is spiritually true—not merely what is visibly present. It distinguishes what is from God and aligned with God versus what is merely appealing, urgent, or popular.

The Holy Spirit is given at conversion—not as an emotional accessory, but as an intelligent guide. He desires to lead you into truth.

We often equate the Holy Spirit with emotionalism. But the Holy Spirit is not noise—He is wisdom.

That is why some people can shout, dance, and emote, yet continue to make destructive decisions. Emotion without discernment is dangerous.

The Holy Spirit teaches, corrects, and reveals truth.

Biblical Examples of Discernment

• Solomon (1 Kings 3:9; 3:16–28): He judged not by intellect, but by discernment.
• Jesus (Matthew 9:4; John 2:24–25): He perceived motives and did not commit Himself to people because He knew what was in man.
• Paul (Acts 16): He discerned deception even when it sounded spiritual.

Demons can use theological language. Discernment looks past sound to substance.

Three Foundations of Discernment

• Proximity to God’s Presence – Psalm 25:14
  If you want to hear God, get close to God. Stop trying to get close to people and get close to Him.
• Immersion in God’s Word – Hebrews 4:12
  Hold every opportunity, person, and decision up against the Word and see how it looks back.
• Purity of Heart – Matthew 5:8
  Impure motives distort spiritual vision.

Unhealed trauma can hijack discernment. If you do not heal from past wounds, you will project pain onto present opportunities and miss divine seasons.

A.    Feelings Can Fool You If Faith Doesn’t Filter Them

1. Feelings are powerful but unreliable.
2. Temporary thrills can cause you to forfeit long-term purpose.
3. Samson was anointed but lacked discernment. He kept connecting to what felt good and lost what was God-given.
4. Love isn’t blind—lust is.
5. Real love asks: Does this connection draw me closer to Christ or pull me away?

B.    Don’t Confuse Availability With Anointing

1. Proximity does not equal purpose.
2. Jesus ministered to multitudes, chose twelve, and trusted three.
3. Some people are seasonal—scaffolding, not structure.
4. Stop assigning permanent status to temporary people.
5. The right person complements your calling. The wrong person competes with it.

III.               THE PROBLEM OF DISCONNECTION

An unequal yoke creates unnecessary strain.

When people are misaligned spiritually, relationships become tug-of-war instead of teamwork.

God warns us not to control us—but to protect us.

A.    You Can’t Move in Sync If You’re Not Moving in the Same Spirit

1. Misalignment causes exhaustion, frustration, and stagnation.
2. Amos 3:3—two cannot walk together unless they agree.
3. One person is stretching, sacrificing, and seeking God. The other is settling, stagnant, and resistant to accountability.
4. What should be partnership becomes pressure.
5. You begin managing relationships instead of advancing purpose.
6. God does not bless confusion, and He will not anoint dysfunction.

B.    The Longer You Excuse It, the Harder It Is to Exit It

1. The Holy Spirit rarely shouts—He whispers.
2. Ignoring His nudges delays consequences, not warnings.
3. Delayed obedience is still disobedience.
4. Many storms we pray to escape are storms God tried to prevent.
5. Staying because of history, chemistry, convenience, or fear of being alone will cost you peace.
6. Samson ignored red flags, and it cost him peace, influence, and destiny.
7. Attachment must never blind you to assignment.

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IV.               THE PROMISE OF DIRECTION

When you choose alignment over attachment, God sends confirmation.

You cannot receive new revelation while clinging to old relationships.

You have too much ahead of you to live without peace.

What looks like rejection is often redirection.

A.    Real Faith Trusts That Rejection Can Be Divine Protection

1. If God closed it, He covered you.
2. Romans 8:28—when someone walks away, it does not mean you are unworthy; it means God is working something out.
3. Do not chase what God is changing.
4. David was not invited to the lineup, but he was chosen for the crown.

B.    God Never Removes Something Right; He Only Reveals Something Real

1. God reveals to protect purpose, not punish you.
2. Purpose is multidimensional—and the enemy has tried to abort it since you were born.
3. Revelation is rescue.
4. Some people leave because their season in your story is complete.
5. Joseph’s rejection positioned him for purpose.
6. A yoke only works when both sides share comparable strength and rhythm. When imbalance exists, one person carries all the weight while the other benefits from the work.
7. Stop forcing what God is freeing you from.
8. When God says no, He is not withholding—He is preparing.
9. When you walk in discernment, destiny does not just survive—it soars.

Illustration: The Runway

A plane may be loaded and ready, but it cannot take off until the runway is clear.

Some things God removed were not evil—they were just in the way.

What felt like rejection was preparation.

God will never allow what He cleared to keep blocking what He declared.

When God makes room, it is because He is ready to complete the promise.